When Tara over at sticky fingers set this week’s gallery prompt, I found it hard to come up with an idea. Then, last night as I was feeding Little M before bedtime, inspiration struck.
This week has been a bit of an emotional roller coaster. Big M is hitting the terrible twos, and I am finding it hard to maintain my cool-mummy facade. This then gives me guilt that I should be a better mummy who can deal with the tantrums without shouting or getting cross myself. I know it is just a phase, but I hope it passes quickly! Yesterday was a long day with battles with Big M over naptime, time out for pinching/hitting and I was exhausted. There had, however, also been some great times during the day: painting in the garden, sorting buttons, cooking the tea together.
The tantrums are actually such a small part of our day, but they overshadow everything else and leave me feeling drained. Really I need to remember that, and focus on the awesome fun we have in between times.
I also need to focus on the fact that I love her more than anything, tantrums and all. Because I do.
To the moon and back.
And then some.
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Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:03 am by Emma (b4kersgirl)
Such a lovely post. I'm yet to have to deal with the terrible twos so making the most of the next year!And a fab photo too
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:04 am by Maggy, red ted art
They are definitely difficult between One and…. oh, for ever! Dont worry, you are not alone, I think we all wish we were calmer or better at managing tantrums and they are SOOOO draining! Love the post and the photo. Great shot. ANd great that you can see past the tantrums and still enjoy your little one
Maggy
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:11 am by vwallop
Ahhh, we all need reminding why we do it sometimes. Lovely x
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:15 am by Pants With Names
Don't beat yourself up about it too much, tantrums are exhausting and so very tiring to deal with and we don't seem able to forget about them as quickly as the little ones can. But I love that book and your photo and thank you for the reminder what it is all about. I find that sometimes I really need it. x
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Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:26 am by tiddlyompompom
thanks. and the "twos" are mostly awesome fun. just the odd "terrible" half hour…
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:28 am by tiddlyompompom
it's good to know others feel the same
she's mostly amazing, so I hope the tantrums are short lived 
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:29 am by tiddlyompompom
indeed we do, but it is TOTALLY worth it
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:30 am by tiddlyompompom
I know what you mean – the tears and shouting can vanish in seconds! I, on the other hand, need a strong coffee and chocolate to restore me
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 10:56 am by monkeymummy
Great pic and post, I always tell Baby T I love her to the moon and back.Perhaps you need to have a tantrum now and then, I find it works wonders! As does chocolate!It sounds like you had a lovely day anyway, all things considered
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:05 am by tiddlyompompom
we did actually have a lovely day. and I also find chocolate helps
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:07 am by Kathleenwalker01
I think you've echoed my own feelings on occasions. Like you say though the amazing times make the odd tantrum fade into insignificance. Lovely Gallery post x
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:40 am by tiddlyompompom
thank you
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:40 am by What did you do toda
Lovely post, lovely book. Focusing on the fun does make a huge difference doesn't it, just not always easy to remember to do it. Am sure I'll find it much harder once we reach the twos.
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:48 am by tiddlyompompom
It's really not that bad, just tricky when you are tired too. Mostly the twos are great fun and I can highly recommend them. Mostly…
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:53 am by Trish @ Mum's G
I didn't know that book so had to look it up! I can't remember the terrible twos at all now – great how memories forget the bad bits x
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 11:53 am by Trish @ Mum's G
I didn't know that book so had to look it up! I can't remember the terrible twos at all now – great how memories forget the bad bits x
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 12:06 pm by tiddlyompompom
that's good to know – a bit like childbirth I guess
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 12:15 pm by If I Could Escape
A fab entry — all of my boys have absolutely loved that book. Don't be so hard on yourself — your little one is likely just testing the waters with his temper tantrums. Just breathe and keep him on course — it will pass. x
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 12:20 pm by Blissful Mum
Lovely post – you've definitely hit the nail on the head in trying not to let the odd tantrum or time out shadow the rest of the day, even though it's hard sometimes! You've reminded me that we really are so lucky to have these little people in our lives aren't we!
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 12:42 pm by deerbaby
Very sweet. We have that book on our shelves too. Mine likes stretching her arms out as far as they will go. Tantrums are hard but they pass. Although when you're in the thick of it it's difficult to remember that isn't it? Hugs.
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 1:01 pm by tiddlyompompom
thanks. I know it's a phase, and actually she's really not that bad. I had just had a long day
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 1:02 pm by tiddlyompompom
we really are. and deep down I'm glad she's feisty
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 1:04 pm by tiddlyompompom
thanks. the tantrums are hard, but I am beginning to notice a pattern (mostly happen when I am feeding little m) so rethinking strategies. hopefully they'll pass soon
Posted on July 21, 2010 at 3:46 pm by MissSearles
Aww I love 'Guess how much I love you' I first came across it when i was a nursery nurse and I have about 3 copies of the book, the original, valetines version and one in german. It's actually the only thing I've ever collected, I want to try and get someother languages so that I can share them all with my children one day.MissSearles
Posted on July 22, 2010 at 9:04 am by tiddlyompompom
It is a lovely book. Haven't actually read it for a while though. I may just dig it out today